Too Much or Not Enough?

When we’re completely ourselves, unfiltered and unedited we can feel like we’ve been too much.

Especially if it was reinforced when we were young that to be acceptable we had shrink parts of ourselves to fit in.

I know I’m not the only one who was told to ‘simmer down’ when I got a bit carried away with myself…and I know this is because I posted a meme about it once and it resonated with loads of you therefore it’s a fact!

But rather than questioning if our authentic self is too much for someone maybe the question we should be asking is ‘is this person enough for me?’

Why do we automatically assume we’re the problem?

With the recent shift of the North Node into Aries 

Keyword ‘I AM’ now isn’t the time to hide our light under a bushel. Whatever a bushel is!

No.

Now is the time for radical authenticity and the courage to be true to yourself regardless of whether other people find you uncomfortable, distasteful or simply TOO MUCH.

It works both ways of course, sometimes we’re not enough for someone that’s outgrown us and who’s truth and desires no longer aligns with our own. It doesn’t make us or them bad or wrong, it just means we’re no longer a vibrational match, there’s dischord where there used to be harmony.

And that’s OK. We’re here to learn, grow and evolve and sometimes that means letting go of the people you’re not vibing with any more.

As the South Node arrives in Libra the sign of relationship, keyword ‘I BALANCE’ our challenge, should we CHOOSE to accept it, is letting go of playing small simply to fit with someone else’s idea of who or what we should be in order to be loved or accepted.

Remember it IS a choice, it’s perfectly OK to keep hiding your light under that bushel if you don’t feel ready for change just yet.

But if you’d like to explore this further get in touch, Fiona Robinson from Consciously Loving Me and I are cooking up a little offering to help you show up in your life and relationships as the fullest expression of yourself without fear of rejection, judgement and shame.

Stay weird Lovely Ones!